Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Huh, Well...I had this article on my mind since months but nor did I have the time nor courage to actually post it.


            Ups & downs are apart of life. Mark my words, you cannot enjoy your life if it is monotonous. In every problem of your life, intention plays a very important role. Whether you believe it or not, intention is one element that shows a person's behavior, quality & everything related to him. So, the next time you encounter a person, do not test his behavior, rather test his intentions. Do not carry a grudge for long because remember you have been given only one life & what may happen in future you never know. Hence, live in present more than any where else. Believe me, if your intention is to remain happy you forever remain happy come what may.

   Well, I like analyzing & thinking over each & every thing, you may say. Many people may seem timid in front of you, but always remember the saying "Don't judge a book by its cover". I have experienced this truth time & again.
   I had a classmate once, who loved to pick on me. As, is my habit of analyzing things, I didn't say anything & just went away from her. Well, no this isn't my timidness. What I felt for her, was immense sympathy. I had been noticing her behavior since the day I joined my college & I realized it was never her fault. She got a kind of thrill in provoking people.
  It is very hard to stop something once it is a habit. Thus, before anything becomes a habit, stop doing it. If you want to feel like someone else just put yourself in his or her shoes. If you cannot understand somebody's views just replace yourself with the other person's circumstances.
The feeling of sympathy is the worst feeling ever for a self-respecting person. Thus, if you are a self-respecting person never sympathize or pity yourself. Always remember, when you pity yourself, you are weak as even others come forward to pity you.
You may break down, but never break down in front of others, as they may take it to as a symbol of weakness. Generally it is a habit for normal humans to drag down another person if they are already down. It is not that you will always remain broken down, if you are determined to pull yourself up again. It is just a matter of time when you can return confident & rejuvenated.








(P.S.: There may be grammatical mistakes etc. but please ignore it.......I didn't have time to go through it again.)